The tragic loss of Brian Thompson—CEO, father, husband, and human being—has sent waves of shock and grief throughout the business community. His death is a personal tragedy for his family and loved ones, and it serves as a profound moment of reflection for leaders everywhere.
It reminds us that leadership, while essential to progress and innovation, carries an immense weight—both seen and unseen.
The Expanding Expectations of CEOs
The role of the CEO has always been demanding, but today, it exists within a far more complex and challenging landscape. CEOs are no longer tasked only with driving profitability and acting as the public face of their companies. They must also:
The Human Cost of Leadership
In my work with senior executives, I often hear about the personal toll of leadership. Many describe their roles as isolating and overwhelming, marked by relentless demands, constant scrutiny, and the erosion of privacy. Family relationships can strain under these pressures, and now, we face a stark and unsettling reality: the physical safety of leaders is at risk.
This raises a difficult question: Is leadership at the highest levels becoming untenable—not just emotionally, but physically? If so, what does this mean for those currently in these roles and those who aspire to them?
A Chilling Impact on Leadership Aspirations
I often hear aspiring leaders questioning whether or not they want the path to the C-suite. CEOs already face difficult trade-offs, including time away from loved ones, high visibility, and extraordinary pressures. The added dimension of potential physical danger could further deter top talent from pursuing these roles.
The increasing adoption of security measures, such as removing executive photos from LinkedIn, highlights this growing concern. However, these steps can also create barriers between leaders and the people they serve, potentially eroding trust and connection. Without strong, ethical leaders, organizations—and the communities they serve—may falter, threatening progress and innovation.
Redefining Leadership at the Top
The current landscape demands a reimagining of what it means to lead. Here are five shifts that can help reshape leadership for a more sustainable and impactful future:
A Call to Action
To CEOs: Your role has never been more complex or critical. Yet, your ability to lead with integrity, courage, and vision can profoundly shape the future. Lean on your board, advisors, executive team, coaches, and family to sustain you in this vital work.
To the public: Let us recognize and honor the humanity of our leaders. While we must hold them accountable, we must also support and appreciate the weight they carry. We must help them by leading up, down, and across our organizations. We are all leaders and we have a role to play in ensure success for those we exist to serve.
Moving Forward
As we navigate these uncertain times, with vast technological change, let us work toward a future where it is no longer lonely at the top. Let us see our role in supporting our boss, peers and direct reports to succeed. Let us focus on being deeply human—to serve not just shareholders but what we all care most about: a better quality of life for everyone.
First published in partnership with my US-firm Syntrina Leadership: supporting and advancing credit union executives.
Our world has changed, rapidly and in unexpected ways. As the crisis hit, I offered and held pro bono sessions with leaders from around the world. And I want to continue to do what I can to help. As a result, I now offer hourly sessions to ensure leaders everywhere can quickly get the perspective, clarity and focus they need to lead themselves, and therefore others, well during these challenging and uncertain times.